Is it okay to search your mates phone and email if you are suspicious?

If you are fairly sure your mate is cheating is it okay to search their email and go through their phone?|||It is SO not okay. You need to respect each others' privacy. If you think he's cheating, then confront him about it. If you still don't believe him, then either he is and you shouldn't be together, or he's not and that means you don't trust him, and so you shouldn't be together.





If you go through his phone %26amp; email, then he can't trust you, so you shouldn't be together.|||Tough to say.


Since I don't know you I don't know if you're a level-headed, confident person with a legitmate reason to worry, or the kind of person who automatically distrusts their mate being around the opposite sex b/c you 'know' they're gonna cheat when, in fact, you're just paranoid without reason.|||"...you cheat to win, that's the USA way!!!!"


trust is the second most valuable thing in this world... but if you don't trust then is ok to go and do it, so make sure u don't get caught... seriously! but be sure that things can get nasty (even if you are not caught) since when u step down one time... is really hard to go up from there...|||Sometimes I think that it's wrong, but when my boyfriend is acting differently or I feel like somethings up, like he's hiding something. I do it. I sure do feel bad when I find nothing though.|||Sure, but just be prepared, because what you might find could really shock you. Sometimes it's better not to know.|||well only if u think u r not cheating on ur partner then its fine...but if u r honest urself then check ureslf before checking out someone else....





thanks....|||Yeah it's wrong but you've got to protect yourself sometimes. If it were me, I'd do it.|||I think it's ok, just do not let him to find out